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If you must dig WAY back into childhood for this answer, then do that. Sometimes boredom in sobriety looks like not wanting to be around anyone. Alcohol merely blurred my perception of social situations.

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Remember, you’re not alone; there are resources available to help you stay focused on sobriety. Embrace honesty in your journey, prepare for social interactions, identify triggers, and avoid temptation. For more information on addiction recovery, check out SAMHSA. Exercise regularly, eat healthily, get enough sleep, and engage in mental well-being activities like meditation or yoga.

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• Even after receiving successful treatment, some people continue to feel an urge to drink for weeks, months, or years.
• It’s a holiday weekend that presents a unique set of challenges for me.
• If nothing else, it starts to chip away at any notion you might have that you’re unworthy.
• Whenever possible, the best course of action may be the avoidance of any situation or event where alcohol consumption occurs.

Try to choose something other than water so that you feel like you are having a treat. Mocktails can be made to taste like a wide variety of cocktails and served in a fancy glass, only sans alcohol (so they taste even better)! Virgin mojitos are especially tasty and look like the real thing if you are trying to avoid prying questions about your beverage choice.

Ways to Enjoy Being Sober When Everyone Else is Drinking

There are many things to do sober that involve physical activity, and it can help the user connect to a new, healthier community. Any drinker can understand the benefits of sobriety just by looking at what is going wrong in their lives and how it relates to their alcohol use. But knowing that abstinence is good doesn’t stop someone from craving alcohol or caving in and using it. Users are unlikely to stay sober and clean unless they have a strategy for staying alcohol-free.

Of course, always be aware of your triggers and avoid drinking anything that may be too similar to the alcoholic drinks you once favored. One way to make sober friends is through social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram. You might search for groups based on sobriety, interests, or location on Facebook and engage with their discussion posts and events. A quick search for hashtags that mention sobriety can help you get started on Instagram.

Avoidance is Sometimes the Best Policy

• However, the meaning of relapse in recovery-oriented systems of care is getting a make-over.
• Others in recovery, have more time or experience in dealing comfortably with such events, and may feel confident in their recovery while being around others who drink.
• That year, a survey from the University of Michigan indicated millennials and Gen Zers were drinking less than the last two generations.
• If you are trying to maintain a sober lifestyle, those feelings can become toxic and contribute to relapse if you don’t deal with them properly.

For many people whose lives once revolved around drinking, it can be difficult to avoid every social, and sometimes professional, event that involves alcohol. Furthermore, we’ll explore identifying triggers and avoiding temptation, understanding why it’s crucial for maintaining sobriety. Additionally, we’ll look at enjoying life beyond alcohol consumption by exploring fun being sober around drinkers activities that don’t involve alcohol and advantages of ordering non-alcoholic drinks over water. Among recovering individuals themselves, in order to reduce risks, some choose only to attend sober parties or events. In some instances, family and friends may choose to hold their parties without alcohol, or at least downplay the central role that drinking might take.

Drunks make people feel awkward.

• It may seem that relapse is the last thing that could happen to you, but the truth is they are very common for people new to recovery.
• Have an exit strategy if needed, such as checking the nearest bus stop, pre-booking transport, or calling upon a sober friend.
• “I make sure that I have my own transportation – either my own car or a taxicab phone number.”
• Feeling guilty or ashamed of past behavior or actions during active addiction is natural and healthy.
• This is a JOYOUS and wonderful thing because it easily sorts out the ones that have a weird relationship with alcohol, or the ones that just aren’t for you.

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